Tuesday 16 June 2015

Nigerian Youngsters: Taking after great Bill Gates

Anesi (16 years old) and his brother Osine (14 years old), are two remarkable young boys from Nigeria.
When they were 9 and 7 years old, the two of them started their own business called "BluDoors"( http://www.bludoors.com/ ), they were
inspired to use the name "Doors" from the name Bill Gates' used for his own product, "Windows".

The story of the Nigerian brothers is a classic story of how great entrepreneurs are launched. In
the series of the "Fast Follower", I pointed out that when a service or product that you are using
frustrates you, instead of railing insults at some poor shop assistant, or call center operator, justice sit down and make something better.

This is what happened with these two boys: Even at the tender ages of 9 and 7, they had already developed an interest in computers, and a few years later were learning CODING. I have already said that the next billionaires in Africa, will include those who learn computer Coding. In Hong Kong, Coding is now being taught to five year olds!
The two boys taught themselves Coding on platforms available on the Internet such as the Code Academy.

As they got better they recognised that there was a "need" to develop a "browser" which could be
used with the type of cheap smart phones that people in Africa generally buy.... Cheap phones or imitations cannot process data as well as more expensive phones, causing the user many problems.

Imagine the audacity of these two youngsters; to sit down and re-imagine the Browser from the mighty Google, known as "Google Chrome".......But they did!

Today they have their own business promoting their own browser which they called, "Crocodile Browser Lite". It is available for free on Google Play Store (https://play.google.com/store/apps/ details?id=com.webs.enterprisedoor ). If you want to see Africa and the World's next "Bill Gates", they will look like these two young boys from Nigeria! This is how Bill Gates and Paul Allen also started.

Let me also tell you a great secret: These young boys will not need to go looking for money, money will come looking for them!
...."ProVISION always follows a great VISION"
The End.

Monday 15 June 2015

Brief Profile of Vice President's wife, Dolapo Osinbajo:

Mrs Oludolapo Osinbajo is a grandchild of the late Obafemi Awolowo. She lost her mother Otunba Olubusola Soyode, one of the children of the late Awolowo, in 2011. Mrs. Osinbajo is the leader of the Ladies Fellowship of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Jesus House Parish. The couple is blessed with three children. In 2007, Prof. Osinbajo and his wife founded The Orderly Society Trust, a non- governmental organization that is dedicated to the promotion of Christian ethics and orderliness.

In October 2014, Mrs. Dolapo Osinbajo launched her book, They Call Me Mama, From the under Bridge Diaries in Lagos. She said that her drive to write the book came from her experiences with some street boys and men in Lagos State, and with the book, she aims to give them a human face.
With the proceeds, she also hopes to sustain her efforts in getting the street urchins off the roads and into homes. My weekly visits to the boys in their hideout under the bridge for several years has filled me with unforgettable stories. Reminiscences of these times are the focus of this book. Our original meeting spot which was lovingly referred to as Under, today; it has been transformed to the Muri Okunola Park.


To me, they are beloved children and they call me Mama. They are lost, but can be found. That
was why I was compelled to write the book and I dedicate the book to everyone who is lost. To the
outcasts on the fringes of society, cast out circumstances, poverty and at times, family. Mrs. Dolapo Osibanjo urged the society to always say no to violence against women which she said could be perpetrated through attacks when hawking, marrying a violent and uncontrollable man, handing over the child for others to train, rape, slavery among other forms of assault against women and girls.

Angry Letter to the Nigerian Youth

By Bayo Adeyinka Adeyinka

My dear Nigerian Youth,

I am very angry and that is why I am addressing you. You are the source of my anger and I want to vent my spleen- maybe not at you directly- but at the arrogance of your ignorance. Of all nations of the world, you are to be most pitied. Do you still wonder what you have done?

You don’t have an Ivy League education but with the little below-standard education you got, all you could do with it is to write a petition against someone with the benefit of an Ivy League education. You can’t even run your personal economy as you’re almost always and perpetuallybroke yet you arrogate to yourself superior knowledge about the nation’s economy.

You sit in front of a computer and rant all day through social media but with every click, you make money- not for yourself- but for MarkZuckerberg. With every megabyte of data you spend complaining and maligning, you make stupendous bucks for Etisalat, Glo and Airtel.
Over the next two years, the number of Nigerian millionaires will jump by 47% but most likely you will not be among because you are too busy whining and complaining. And yet about 60% of
Nigeria’s 170m population are below 35 years.

Oh, what a waste!
By the way, Mark Zuckerberg was 19 when he started facebook. Africa’s youngest billionaire, Ashish Thakkar, is 31. He escaped from the Rwandan genocide and relocated to Uganda where he started an IT business. Collin Thornton, who made his millions by fixing bad computers and setting up Dial-a-Nerd, is 35. Adam Horowitz, an 18-year-old entrepreneur, started 30 websites in 3 years before he became successful.
The only thing you have ever started is an online petition. Have you heard of Jason Njoku? He’s 33 and the founder of Iroko TV. He received $8m investment into his company just a few years ago. What he does? Sharing the same Nollywood films that you spend hours to watch online. He didn’t just hang around waiting for Buhari to make something happen or blaming Jonathan for not making anything happen.
Kamal Budhabhatti was deported from Kenya but while on the flight, he thought of the opportunities in Kenya. He found his way back after 6 months and today his company is valued at $30m. He’s 36. Have you heard of Chinedu Echeruo? Apple just paid $1b for his app. He’s a Nigerian like you and all he did was attempt to fix a problem.


But for you, the only thing you attempt to fix are your nails- and your hairdo! Chinedu moved to New York in 1995 and found it difficult to navigate the city with ease so he developed HopStop to fix the problem. Stop listing all the problems- we know them already but what are you doing about them?


Awolowo was 37, Akintola was 36, Ahmadu Bello was 36, Tafawa Balewa was 34, Okotie-Eboh was 27 and Enahoro was 27 at the time of independence of Nigeria. In 1966, the first coup was led by Kaduna Nzeogwu (29) and stopped by Murtala Mohammed (28), TY Danjuma (28), IBB (25), Sanni Abacha (23) and Shehu Yaradua (23). It brought in Yakubu Gowon as Head of State at 32 and Obasanjo at 29. You are in your 40s and you still sag your trousers.


Of course you know Linda Ikeji. You’ve spent hundreds of hours on her blog laughing and commenting while she smiles her way to the bank. She’s just built a house for her father in the
village- just by you clicking on her gossip and sharing. Your day is not complete without a stop by at her blog. She was as broke as you are but she turned a hobby into a business. Are you that void of understanding?


You think the politicians have any regard for you? That is why I referred to the arrogance of your ignorance at the beginning of this diatribe. You have a false estimation of yourself. You have an over bloated ego. You are only as good as an election ticket- pure and simple.

You are only good to used and discarded like a used ballot paper. Who keeps a used ballot paper anyway? That is why they only remember you every four years. You are like a menstrual pad
that is only useful during the menstrual period.

Are you hurt? Okay, let me help you. Have you heard of Prof Olusola Adeyeye before? He is a Senator of the Federal Republic at the moment. But before he became a senator, he was popular on facebook. Even more popular than so many latter day facebookivists. I was one of his many followers. He put up posts after posts and pander to populist thinking. Then he was elected and one of the first things he did was to deactivate his facebook account. Yes, you read me right. Deactivate. How many times do you still see El-Rufai’s tweets? No longer regular? That is how it will dwindle until he disappears totally. I’m not limiting it to the aforementioned alone and this is not about any party. They are all the same.

Yet you falsely believe your future is in the hands of one politician. You will grow grey hair with that belief. And by the time you wise up, you’re on your way to the grave- not with a life expectancy of less than 60 years in this clime. Can you see you have wasted your time? And possibly your life? See, people have been complaining since independence. And they will still complain in 4 years. Will you be among them?


I agree with my friend who said Nigerian youth need mental detoxification. And maybe I should add that you need a brain transplant. Let me give you another example. I’ve watched you try to pull some people down when you don’t like their face-
or their comments. You report them to facebook.

And they get pulled down. Momentarily. Just momentarily. Do you know why? Facebook knows those people draw traffic

Saturday 13 June 2015

Grammar Check - Commonly Misspelt Words

Time for a spelling bee! Let’s see how well you do. If you realize you actually misspell all the 20 English words below, don’t sweat it too much, you are in good company.

Ernest Hemingway, Winston Churchill, Jane Austen and John Keats were all notoriously terrible spellers!

1. Wrong: Embarass
Correct: Embarrass
2. Wrong: Writting
Correct: Writing
3. Wrong: Accomodate
Correct: Accommodate
4. Wrong: Seperate
Correct: Separate
5. Wrong: Alot
Correct: A lot
6. Wrong: Truely
Correct: Truly
7. Wrong: Tommorow/ Tommorrow
Correct: Tomorrow
8. Wrong: Definately
Correct: Definitely
9. Wrong: Mispell
Correct: Misspell
10. Wrong: Alright(this may be allowed)
Correct: All right
11. Wrong: Maintainance
Correct: Maintenance
12. Wrong: Recieve
Correct: Receive
13. Wrong: Occassion/ Occassion/
Correct: Occasion
14. Wrong: Occurence
Correct: Occurrence
15. Wrong: Momento
Correct: Memento
16. Wrong: Priviledge
Correct: Privilege
17. Wrong: Miniscule
Correct: minuscule
18. Wrong: Neccessary
Correct: Necessary
19. Wrong: Pronounciation
Correct: Pronunciation 20. Wrong: Wierd
Correct: Weird.

The good thing about the smart phones we have now is that they all come with
dictionaries pre- installed, if you are not
sure of a spelling, simply type it out on
your phone and let it correct it for you!

And please, don’t get too attached chating abbreviations because you may
unconsciously use them when writing an examination or formal write-up.

Feel free to share your views and add
yours.

Housemaid Arraigned For Stealing N7m Property



A 25-year-old housemaid, Queen Onalo, has been brought before a magistrate’s court on the Lagos Island for allegedly stealing valuables of one Nneka Ogbuagu, her boss’ friend.

The property, according to the police, are a necklace, rings, clothes and bottles of perfume estimated at about N7m.
It was learnt that the housemaid also stole N30,000 which belonged to her boss, Lisa Ray.

It was gathered that Ogbuagu and Ray were neighbours and they resided on Agungi/Ajiran Road, Lekki, in the Eti-Osa Local Government Area of the state.
Ogbuagu, apart from sending Onalo on errands, also gave her a free access to her rooms.

The housemaid was said to have exploited the freedom to steal the property around 10 am on May 14, when the friends were not at home.

Some of the stolen items; three bottles of perfume, an earring, one silver necklace and 28 dresses had been recovered from the defendant, while others had been reportedly sold to some
suspects who are still at large.

Onalo was subsequently arraigned on two countsbof stealing before a presiding magistrate, Mrs. O.M. Ajayi.
A police prosecutor, Sergeant Daniel Ighodalo, told the court that the offences contravened and were punishable under sections 285 (7) and 285 (7) of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, Nigeria, 2011.

The charges read in part, “That you, Queen Onalo, and others, now at large, on May 10, 2015, at about 10am, at 39 Agungi/Ajiran Road, Lekki, in the Lagos Magisterial District, did steal a diamond set of necklace and ring valued at N1.8m; a platinum diamond ring with coloured gemstone worth N4m; clothes valued at N195,000 and bottles of perfume valued at N105,000 – all valued at N7m – property of one  Nneka Ogbuagu.

“That you and others at large on the same date, time and place, in the aforementioned magisterial district, did steal a sum of N30,000 from one Lisa Ray.” The defendant, however, pleaded not guilty to the charges and was admitted to bail by the magistrate in the sum of N200,000 with two sureties in like sum.

Ajayi adjourned the case till June 22, 2015.

Tears as Chibok Mothers Visit Presidency

The Vice President’s wife, Dolapo Osinbajo, on Friday, June 12, recounted how two mothers of abducted Chibok girls caused the First Lady, Hajia Aisha Buhari to weep.

Osinbajo, who spoke to journalists in Abuja, led the two women to meet with the First Lady, and consequently with President Muhammadu Buhari.

The women reportedly wept uncontrollably after the meeting as they posed for photographs.

The Vice President's wife said, “Hajia Aisha Buhari had, for many months, wanted to visit Chibok. She also wanted to meet with the mothers.

“Today, we had an opportunity for them to meet face-to-face. We had two of the mothers who still have their daughters missing after a year.
“Hajia, being a mother, met with them, held them and they cried, everybody cried. What only a mother will do is to say ‘wait, I want you to see your father and see what your father will do.’

“We were all extremely overwhelmed that at this time when the President is so busy, he had time to meet with the women from Chibok.

“He spoke to them in English and Hausa. He explained to them how he keeps telling everybody to put themselves in their place.
“So, today, we have had the opportunity for the President and Hajia to show that they are our father and mother, for that we are glad.”

However, the weeping mothers were ushered out by security operatives after the photo session. More than 200 Chibok secondary school students were kidnapped in April 2014 by dangerous sect Boko Haram, with no knowledge of their whereabouts and condition till date.

3 Boys arrested for kidnapping School Girl in Ife

Three boys were today, Wednesday June 15 arrested at Ile-Ife in osun state. The boys who kidnapped a school girl in Ile-

Ife were arrested at Idita zone 6, Mokuro road. Some women noticed the strange manner which the vehicle they used was driven and raised an alarm.


Residents of the area stopped them and found the girl in the boot of the car. Timely intervention of the police prevented the boys from been lynched , they have been transferred to the
Police headquarters in Osogbo.

Friday 12 June 2015

8 Signs You Need to Break That Relationship

1. You don’t trust each other any more.

Trust is one of the most important parts of any relationship and when you lose that, it’s almost certainly time to end the relationship. The signs your relationship has gone through this is simple – you find yourself questioning the other person’s motives, abilities and reasons all the time. Everything from why she’s acting so nice to you, to how much you trust her to take something that is important to you and respect it.
If there’s mutual distrust on either side, it can lead to absolute crumbling of the relationship and the foundations it was built on, causing jealousy, anger, possessiveness and other negative feelings to leak free and poison the already tenuous relationship. Hitting this point is very hard to come back from and one of the reasons it might be right to end the relationship.

2. You realize you have different values.

We all have our own values that are important to us – security, freedom, a conservative family, a liberal family, an open marriage. Whatever your values are, that’s fine, but when they begin to rub uncomfortably against your significant other, it might be an early warning sign all is not right in paradise and it might be time to end the relationship.
Every relationship has a process of compromise, negotiation and assimilation of your partner’s values into your life, but sometimes values are too distinct and different to ever be reconciled without a drastic compromise that will likely cause a rift as one of you struggles against what you really want and what you’ve decided you must become in order to fulfill the other person’s needs. If this is a serious problem in your relationship, it’s best for both parties to end the relationship and move on.

3. You no longer make plans with him or her in mind.

This one ties deeply into the idea if you’ve slowly been pushing your significant other out of your life psychologically, it’s time to actually remove them. We all make plans for the future, even if they only go so far as the next few weeks or month or so, and your significant other should always be considered as a part of them, even if the plans don’t directly involve him or her.
No longer making plans with your partner in mind is one of the major signs it’s time to end the relationship – if you’re not making plans with your significant other in mind, he’s no longer a big part of what you hold dear. If you’re subconsciously seeing him in a transient way, i.e. as if he’s not a permanent fixture or a solid part of your life, then you’ve already psychologically let go and are just treading water. End the relationship so both of you can move on.

4. You no longer have any fun.

Relationships are supposed to be fun, and joyous, and if you’ve lost that from the relationship, it might be time to end the relationship if you find yourself unable to retrieve and reawaken the sense of fun you no doubt once shared with your significant other. Days have become dull, every attempt at excitement or some happiness-inducing activity is met with malaise or a general distaste for something that breaks you out of your routine. Nothing kills so much as endless, anodyne routine, and that’s the same with r
A relationship should be responsible and grown up as well as fun, so there should always be a balancing of both sides. Being responsible and able to cut loose means you have the best of both worlds. If you’ve grown tired of the relationship, you’ve got to realize life is way too short to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate the same sort of fun you have, and if you’ve had this discussion more than enough times without gaining any compromise or leeway, it might be right to end the relationship.

5. You fantasize about life with someone else.

Everyone fantasizes – it’s a part of human nature, the ability to dream and creatively envision that which may or may not have been, or all that could have been, in either a positive or negative way. However, it begins to negatively affect your relationship when you cannot channel your energies into being in a relationship with your current significant other, instead choosing to daydream about a life with someone else – or, more honestly,anyone else.
This isn’t the same as having a little pleasant daydream about Liam Hemsworth or Kate Upton or Laverne Cox, and then going on in your daily life. The kind of fantasizing we’re talking about here is the persistent, half-serious daydreaming about someone who’s caught your eye and whom you could seriously see yourself sharing a life with. Maybe it’s the cute co-worker who always sits next to you and shares snacks with you, or the barista at the coffee shop who knows you by name and gives you a special smile. If you’re going down this route, then perhaps you’ve already given up on your relationship psychologically and emotionally, and it might be time to end the relationship you’re currently in.

6. You can’t see a future with him or her.

The most important point of being in a relationship is the idea of creating a future together, shaping and designing your life you are actively choosing to share with your significant other. If you cannot imagine a future with this person, then it brings about the question about why you are in the relationship to begin with and why you’re choosing to remain in a situation with which you have little emotional investment.
That isn’t to say having casual relationships are stupid or pointless – they can be fun and an enjoyable experience – but if you’re in a full-on, long-term relationship with someone, the idea of spending the rest of your life with this person has to be a large contributing factor to the relationship. If you’re not seeing or wanting to envision a future with this person, then it’s time to end the relationship and move on.

7. You can’t get excited about the idea of marrying this person.

Marriage isn’t for everyone and that’s okay, but a way to assess whether or not it might be time to end the relationship, is to look to a possible future and imagine yourself getting married to your current partner. Not just the idea of marriage, but the whole shindig. The physical act of marriage. Chances are if you’re at the end of your relationship’s path, the idea of marrying this person and consigning yourself to potentially years of marriage with him or her sends a cold shiver down your spine and makes you feel absolutely terrified.
Getting married is a bit of an extreme circumstance, perhaps, but the idea of any form of strong, serious commitment with a person can induce feelings of panic and fear, and might be a strong indicator and sign it’s time to end the relationship. Things have run their course, maybe, and while it’s nice to cling to the idea of changing and getting over it, it’s not fair to the other person who might be more committed and ready to take that step where you cannot just yet.

8. You realize he or she has become a stranger.

The final nail in any relationship’s coffin is the realization the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with is a stranger to you. Sure, you might have the memories and feelings you still do for this person – the weekend away, how you told him you loved him – but who he fundamentally is to you has drastically and perhaps irrevocably shifted and transformed.
You don’t have the same ideals, the same dreams, the same supportive bond to each other you used to have. He is not the person you fell in love with, the person you shared a relationship with, and can you really continue a relationship on that? It’s impossible, untrue, and unfair, both to yourself and to the other person involved. Finding yourself lying next to a stranger who you used to call your one true love means you have to end the relationship, or spend years in regret and lying to him and yourself about what you really want. Life’s too short, after all.

Coping with a Busy Spouse

Couples may find themselves spending less and less time together, and the time they do have might be stained with stress. Not surprisingly, this can make you feel like you’re miles apart.
But it doesn’t take long hours of quality time to enhance your relationship connection. What’s important is developing an “attitude of carrying your spouse or partner with you” throughout your day, according to Mark E. Sharp, Ph.D, a psychologist in private practice who specializes in relationship issues.
Here are six simple ways to sustain a strong connection when the days keep getting shorter (and the to-do list, longer).

1. Use technology for good.
Technology can strain your relationship if you’re constantly plugged in, but it doesn’t have to. “Sending a quick text, an email, a chat or a phone call can take just a few seconds but can send an important message – I am thinking about you and I love you,” said Chelsea Madsen, Ph.D, a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in working with couples at Wasatch Family Therapy.
If you get so busy throughout your day that you forget, just set an alarm on your phone as a reminder, Madsen said. Or schedule specific times in your day to reconnect, even if it’s a brief phone chat, Sharp said.

2. Plan ahead.
According to Madsen, “When the ‘to-do’ list gets longer we often get lost in the have to, want to, and should do’s, but the clarity of which tasks are the highest priorities seem to get a little cloudy.” Plus, waiting to spend quality time together when you actually have time will likely leave you waiting forever. Prioritize your relationship by planning ahead for date nights. For instance, hire a babysitter well in advance, Madsen said.

3. Know each other’s schedules.
“Another way that partners can carry each other is being aware of each other’s schedule and activities,” Sharp said. This way, if your partner has an exciting or tough day, you can support them, he said.

4. Create and continue rituals.  
Your rituals don’t need to be elaborate or time-consuming. They could be as simple as a kiss before work, a chat before bed or a glass of milk in the evening together, Madsen said. And if you already have certain rituals, keep them going, she said. “Rituals tell your partner you are there, and there is stability in the relationship, something to count on,” she said.

5. Tackle tasks together.
Madsen suggested checking off your to-do list as a team. Run errands together. Catch up while you’re cooking dinner, she said. “Even working side by side on your computers can be fun and relationship-enhancing if you make it that way,” she said.

6. Check in with each other’s emotions.
“One of the first things I see slide when we are busy is emotional connection,” Madsen said. But this is an important way to feel closer to your partner. “It gives you a sense of support and confidence that is unique,” she said. So talk about your feelings, worries, woes and life in general, she said.